The Climb
Disclaimer: This will be a longer post than usual. Ready? Ok.
My boyfriend (we’ll call him C for the sake of the post) is an avid rock climber. He’s lead certified and all. During his birthday weekend, he took me to his favorite rock gym.
I’ve rock climbed a few times before, but I’ve never seen walls so HIGH. I mean, they were at least 10 stories. As one of the staff walked me through a quick training, I kept glancing up at those monstrosities wondering if I would ever be able to fully scale them.
Flash forward a few minutes later to my first climb, using an auto-belay. C was watching me from a bench not too far away. I started climbing only to realize three stories up that I hadn’t practiced the fall. I. Was. Scared. Quickly looking to C, he casually and confidently assured me that it was perfectly okay to let go and that the auto-belay would catch me and bring me down. I wasn’t trying to hear it. Me, the beginner climber was arguing with someone far more wise and knowing.
A group of climbers came around the corner and one yelled up to me and said, “I know it’s scary, but it’ll be okay. I promise.” The added encouragement is what I needed to let go and get planted back on the ground.
But two things happened here:
1. I chose to listen to a voice of a stranger. I was literally hanging on the word of someone I’ll never see again. My man was right there though, looking up and watching my every move from the very beginning. I was always safe. Yet I didn’t follow his direction and support.
2. I extended my trial by not trusting the voice of the one I knew, loved and trusted. C would never put me in harm’s way. But my fear clouded my faith. What I thought I knew in all of my inexperience held more weight.
How many times have we looked to friends, family and mentors during challenges instead of shifting immediately to our Creator? Or once we did look to our Creator, we questioned and argued our way through it?
That rock climb put a lot of things into perspective. Before we left, I climbed that particular wall again and made it about seven stories before my arms started burning (definitely out of shape). I also successfully bouldered a path with C’s watchful guidance. No harness, no lines. I climbed with a firm trust that he wouldn’t bring me harm and the results were far more rewarding than I could have imagined.
O, to live assuredly.